Suspecting that your spouse is cheating is a devastating thought pattern to get caught up in, one that causes untold pain for anyone facing the possibility of it being true, but what’s worse? Suspecting the worst, or dealing with what could be shattering truth?
Are you just imagining it?
Often when the relationship between two people changes, it’s easy to start suspecting the worst, but it’s best to bear in mind that the change in your spouse does not necessarily mean he or she is cheating. However, it is true that most people guilty of infidelity will deny it, its human nature, and they often deflect it back at you.
If trying to talk about it turns you into the crazy one who is just imagining things it may be time to start listening to that little voice. Your sixth sense keeps nagging at you, telling you that something is wrong but you can’t put your finger on it, but whenever you raise the subject you’re told you’re imagining things
The only way to know whether or not your spouse is cheating on you is to step into the unknown and find proof, but not to do it on your own or through friends and family.
Gathering evidence of infidelity on a cheating spouse on your own is fraught with emotional tension that could escalate into something dangerous if you’re not very careful, especially if you’re heading for a divorce.
This is a job best left to a professional investigator, one that’s highly trained and experienced, and who’ll guide you through these challenging and uncharted waters with the sensitivity you’re going to need during the course of the investigation.
Some of the signs that could point to infidelity include your spouse, but please bear in mind that this is not a definitive way to gauge whether you’re being cheated on or not:
- Becoming secretive when calls are made or received
- Deleting text messages or emails immediately
- Spending considerably more time on the computer for no specific reason
- Spending more time working late
- Spending more time away on trips for work
- A change in perfume or after shave
- Paying more attention to their appearance than before
- Stonewalling you when you try to talk about things and cutting off communication with you
- Inexplicable behavioural changes
- Lack of interest in doing anything with you
- Becoming more secretive and unavailable, whether physically present or not
There are more signs than these that’ll give you a hint that your spouse or partner is cheating on you, but you can be pretty sure that if your gut tells you something is wrong, it more than likely is.
None of us wants to even entertain words like affair, infidelity or adultery, but it happens, as we all know, and, if you want to hang on to your sanity, let a professional either set your mind at ease by providing proof you’re not being cheated on, or to provide the painful proof of infidelity.
According to statistics, 85% of people who suspect infidelity are generally spot on with their suspicions, a sad but true look at cheating in the 21st century!
The age of mobile technology has made cheating a lot easier, with online cheating taking its own place centre stage today. A partner or spouse cheating online is every bit as damaging to any relationship, as one in which a spouse is physically involved in an extramarital affair! It’s really just one small step to meeting the cyber would-be lover to make it a physical reality!
You can trust the right private investigator with your fears about infidelity
If you’ve plucked up the courage to face truth instead of living with suspicion, no matter how devastating the result may be, it’s best to tackle it with a professional investigative firm that’s the moniker of being the number one cheating spouse detective in South Africa.
King Investigators has handled thousands of cases over the years, turning over every stone to provide honest, reliable proof of infidelity, if that is the case and it’s not your imagination.
As a team of consummate professionals, King Investigators offers a free confidential consultation in an attempt to set your mind at ease about how an investigation would work, before you take the big step towards facing proof of infidelity.