What does your gut tell you about whether you’re living with a cheater?

In an era of technology and the freedom that mobile phones and other devices bring, it’s become a whole lot easier for a spouse to cheat on a partner, which has simply complicated an already emotionally painful experience for anyone who suspects a spouse of cheating.

Let there be no doubt about it, more people in a relationship than not feel that chatting which includes sexual talk is as good as cheating.  Not all of us feel that it’s okay!

For many, finding an email love letter addressed to someone other than themselves creates a sense of betrayal, humiliation and pain, no matter whether the recipient of the email is on another continent and hasn’t had physical contact.

If it’s hidden, there’s something not right, which is when you’re entitled to address your own rights with your spouse, but back to what your gut may be telling you about whether your spouse is cheating on you.

Of course it can be a girlfriend or boyfriend cheating on you, it’s no less painful naturally, but how do you know whether what your sixth sense may be telling you is real or imagined?

Simply imagining that your partner is cheating is frightening enough, but when all the alarm bells are going off it’s hard to define the line between what’s real and what isn’t.

None of us ever want to be confronted by words like affair, adultery, infidelity and cheating, but, as any private investigator in South Africa will tell you, this is one of the main reasons that people will contact a private investigator.

Not all the signs that point towards the possibility that your spouse may be cheating mean they are, it takes more than just a few of the red flags to be raised to consider that you may be dealing with infidelity or an affair.

There are people who would rather know than to keep imagining and living in fear of being cheated on, and, who on hiring a cheating spouse detective, are set at ease that the reality is different to what was imagined, taking immense pressure off the ability to trust a loved one.

If what you’re feeling is impacting the trust and comfort in your relationship, and if the uncertainty becomes unbearable, you may choose to confront the truth, no matter how painful it may be if your suspicions are confirmed.

If you’re at the place where you need to take action rather than to live in that uncertainty, choose your private investigator carefully.

The emotions you’re dealing with by the time you hire an investigator are painful enough, without ending up with someone who has little compassion and even less understanding for the place you’re in on the inside.

What King Investigators bring to a difficult investigation like this is to treat you with the sensitivity you’ll need during the process, and to take your fears seriously.

They’ll make what is a shattering experience a little less frightening, guiding you with their experience and professionalism, so that you can make the right decisions about how you want the investigation to go forward.

It’s not about the budget for these investigators, another thing you really need to know going in.  You’ll have a clear idea of what can be done on the basis of the finances you have available to get to the bottom of what’s going on, without a doubt.

The guys at King Investigators are considered the number one cheating spouse detectives in South Africa, and they leave no stone unturned in their determination to bring the truth to light on your behalf.

If you suspect infidelity or cheating, chat to Jacques Botha about how and where to start this very difficult journey.  He and his registered private investigators are fully equipped to make sure that you have the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth at the end of the investigation.